February 5th First Thursday at Messina Hof with K. Sue Redman ’80 and Molly Underwood ’99.

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Join Sue Redman ’80, WFSN Co-Founder and Molly Underwood ’99, current President of WFSN, for an inspiring and delightful history of the creation of the Women’s Former Student Network at Texas A&M University.  Now in its 8th year, Sue and Molly will share the “8” ways in which you can get involved with the WFSN.

Do you have an interest in

  • Meeting with and mentoring female students?
  • Participating in scholarly activity with women faculty?
  • Conducting a master class for students in your professional field?
  • Being a guest speaker in the classroom?
  • Finding your own unique way to “Giving Back”?

This is the gathering for you.  Like so many other fabulous Aggie Women, you reflect one of Texas A&M’s core values – Selfless Service.

Since its launch in 2008, the year of the 45th anniversary that women were admitted to Texas A&M University, WFSN has been dedicated to its mission “to enhance the excellence of Texas A&M University by promoting the active engagement of women in the educational, charitable and cultural life of the institution.”

Sue and Molly will share some of the accomplishments made by the WFSN as well as some personal stories, “ah ha” moments, and reasons for their significant involvement in the WFSN.

Meet us February 5, 2015 at Messina Hof Winery and Resort Winebar; 5:30-7:30 pm.  There is no charge to attend.  For more information call about the event 979-778-9463 ext. 244.

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January 8th First Thursday at Messina Hof with Vana Stiller ’88

Learning to Lead Requires First Learning to Follow

Join us this Thursday, January 8th at Messina Hof where Vana Stiller ’88 will be our hostess on a most fun and unusual exercise – learning a ballroom dance.

On the surface it sounds like a purely social event.  But in reality it is an opportunity to learn the basics of leadership from the leader’s perspective and from the follower’s perspective.  We will learn the art of silent communication and interpretation.

Wine social is at 5:30 at the Messina Hof Winebar.  At 6 pm we will move to the Gallery for the dance lesson with professional instructor Ray Garcia.

In these days of endless conferences, webinars, seminars, classes, etc. about leadership, we often miss the foundational requirement of a good leader – how to follow.  How do you rate as a follower?  Find out for yourself in a fun and healthy way.


Vana’s post on the upcoming event:

Vana StillerI am Vana Stiller ’88, BBA Management, and I challenge you.  Professional dance instructor Ray Garcia of Brazos Ballroom Dance is building a dance club in Bryan-College Station.  It meets each week at Messina Hof and has grown from a few couples casually learning to dance to members who are actually competing on the dancefloor professionally.  We invite you to join us.

Dancing is habit forming.  My husband (Peter) and I have been taking ballroom dance lessons for over three years now all because we wanted to add a little fun to our lives.  Now we are addicted to dancing and are always trying to improve.

Dancing is a partnership and both parties are responsible for what happens on the dance floor.  One partner must be a good leader and the other must be a good follower.  Both positions take discipline.  Following is not passive.  There are active rules and needs of followers just as there are for leaders.  In order to be a good leader, you must understand and successfully practice what it takes to be a good follower.

It also requires an intuitive silent communication between lead and follower.  At first, as a follower, you think you are supposed to somehow be a mind reader and just know what the lead is doing and wanting you to do.  Over time, you learn to be patient, to “listen”, and to focus on the slight movement of your lead.  With every new dance partner you have to make adjustments to make sure you are communicating and interpreting.  Once the flow of communication is going you are dancing in silent communication.

I am so glad that we did not pass up the opportunity to take dance lessons.  It has been hard work but so rewarding.  We have persevered and we improve with each step we take while doing something we never thought we could do and loving it.  You are never too old to learn and everyone needs a little dance in his or her life.

Anyone wanting information about classes can contact Ray Garcia at 979-255-7211 or Vana Stiller at 979-777-6450. The website is www.brazosballroomdance.com.

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Lynn Purnell Hagan ’77, 2010 Legacy Award Recipient and WFSN member

 

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1: Lynn Purnell Hagan ’77, 2010 Legacy Award Recipient and WFSN member

If you like what you read here, come and join me at the WFSN First Thursday, December 4 at Messina Hof Wine Bar from 5:30 to 7:30 (half price glasses of wine!) to hear more of this story. Bring a friend (they don’t have to be Aggies…or women!)

I pick up my story in the year 2001. It was a banner year. I closed my successful psychotherapy office in Louisiana to move to, of all places, Kuwait. I can honestly say, and Don will attest to this, I did not want to go. I was shutting down what I had worked toward for 5 years of grad school. On the other hand, how could I not move to Kuwait? What a challenge and what an adventure. I had no idea how much of a challenge and adventure it would become.

Fast forward to June when I arrived in Kuwait. Living on a compound next to the Saudi border, was not idyllic, to say the least. Bored and with little to do, I contemplated abandoning this misadventure and heading home. Fast forward to September 11.

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2: Entrance to Saudi Arabian Texaco Compound

Five miles from the Saudi border. On the banks of the Arabian (no, not Persian) Gulf. I asked Don, “What is going to happen to us?” The world for everyone was turned upside down. But living in a Saudi compound, thousands of miles from home, put a different spin on things. Things would no longer be boring. I would no longer be bored.

Shortly after the attacks, the Medical Unit of the US Embassy in Kuwait contacted me. The medical officer told me I was the only western psychotherapist in the country and he needed me to come to the embassy to discuss some cases. Heck ya. I am all over that!

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3: Approach to US Embassy in Kuwait

The case was a high level security individual, a US citizen, who had a terror plan of his own – borne out of his heretofore undiagnosed PTSD. We began the process of sending him home for his, and national, security. Other cases presented themselves soon after. A suicide pact among local American students who wanted to be sent home. Humanitarians who were being evacuated from Iraq who witnessed and experienced such horrors, I will not elaborate here. These were some of the cases I handled at the embassy.

 

At the same time the embassy was contacting me, I received a call from The Scientific Center of Kuwait, a science education complex comprised of an IMAX theatre, a hands-on science center, and the largest aquarium in the Middle East. Long story short here, I became the director of Discovery Place and Education – managing a cadre of Kuwaiti nationals and international staff. Wow.

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4: The Scientific Center of Kuwait

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5: On my way to work

Kuwait is a small country…about the size of Connecticut. I drove about ½ way – one way – every day going to work. Now, add to these events, terror attacks across the country and the military buildup. I drove past check points and tanks, and burned out cars. I met personnel at a mix of locales, including barricaded hotels. That was the milieu. Social work colleagues in the USA told me that I should not do it. It was putting myself too much at risk. My thought – how could I not? People were in need of help and I felt it would be unethical not to make myself available. So, I did it. Time after time. Day after day.

As a result, it gave me an experience beyond anything I could have imagined. We spend 6 years in Kuwait. Having been assigned a war zone, it was time for Chevron to send us to a more favorable post – Scotland!

Watching PartyScotland was far less exciting albeit much more beautiful. After being there a couple of years we took on the task of the local Aggie Club. We hosted three Musters and had a couple of special outings and football game viewings (a couple of days after the games). We made it into the Texas Aggie Magazine many times…you probably saw us!

Great stories you say. But what does this have to do with Aggie Women and Aggie Values? Aggie Core Values go beyond what we can do for our school. It must transcend into the world at large. Scotland enabled me to be a good Ag and host Musters and get-togethers. Kuwait enabled me to be a world citizen embodying selfless service, cultural respect, integrity, and excellence. For me, I have reworked an old adage, turning it into “Think locally but act globally.” Now, Aggie Women, it’s your turn! Gig ‘Em!!

January’s First Thursday for WFSN will be January 8, 5:30-7:30, at Messina Hof Wine Bar. Come join us as we learn more about leading and following – and learn a new dance step. We hope to see you there…oh, yes…and bring a friend!

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First Thursday, November 6th with Kathie Hitt ’90

The WFSN and Messina Hof had another successful and enlightening First Thursday event last week.  Our guest speaker was Kathie Hitt ’90 from RainDrop Harvesting Solutions, LLC.  Here’s what she had to say about the event.  Join us next Thursday, December 4th to hear stories of the Aggie Spirit Around the World from Lynn Hagan ’77.

Kathie Hitt ’90:

“We had the distinct pleasure to be able to present to the Aggie Women at their First Thursday Event which occurs every first Thursday of every month out at Messina Hof Winery. We discussed Rainwater Harvesting systems and Water Conservation methods and why both are important for all of us, especially those considering sustainable living.

Our information started off with our never ending drought situation here in Texas. While we are fortunate to receive 35 inches of rain on average here in the Bryan-College Station area, many areas in our state are not so fortunate. Wichita Falls is in stage 5 drought currently, being a good example. In this area, they are having to consider treating their waste-water for drinking due to the lack of rainfall and groundwater reserves being depleted.

We discussed which months during the year are the best to install a rainwater harvesting system and went over the formula to show that if you had a 1000 sq foot roof, to date you would have collected 19,406 gallons of water from that size roof.

Next we talked about some reasons why you would want to conserve water by harvesting rain from your roof. Harvesting rainwater actually helps recharge the aquifers because instead of running off into the sewers, the capture and subsequent use in gardens and plants and landscape as well as lawns lets the water go back into the ground where it should be. Harvesting rainwater is a great alternative to supplement irrigation and not be subject to watering restrictions. Rainwater is low in mineral deposits and is a viable water source for those who live in regions where the water might be high in salt or where drilling wells are not an option. Storm-water can cause eroding of your property around foundation as well as damage your property. Collecting rainwater eliminates mosquito havens and reduce the need for other types of storm-water controls.

We discussed both a Dry System and a Wet System and what the differences are between the two. Then we showed a series of pictures showing how far rainwater cisterns or tanks have come. They come in a variety of shapes, sizes and colors to meet the needs of everyone. They continue to evolve and we are excited to keep bringing the most recent information to our customers. Our goal is to be able to solve any and all water problems that our clients encounter whether it be capturing the water, to storm water problems or even water treatment issues.

We briefly discussed our mobile rainwater harvesting demo that we have available to take out to various events. This helps educate the public on what the basic components of a rainwater system are and be able to see it in action. Then we answered questions at the end.

It was wonderful to be able to come back to the place where this dream all began to talk about Rainwater harvesting basics. My Aggie sisters encouraged me after I took a rainwater class and was basically dreaming out loud about how neat it would be to make a business out of it at a FirstThursday event at Messina Hof in 2013. Their support and encouragement, then and now continues to be an inspiration to me and my business partner to keep doing what we are doing to encourage water conservation here in the Brazos Valley.”

RainDrop Harvesting Solutions, LLC
www.RainDropSavers.com

Kathie Hitt, Aggie Class of ’90 & Henry Luna, III co-owners

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